Last Saturday evening Lou had already packed her suitcase for her trip to the UK so we decided to go for a meal in Downtown Vancouver. We went to The Keg which is a popular steakhouse chain. There are several of them in Vancouver and we chose to go to the one near Burrard Station. It was our third visit since we arrived here and it's probably our favourite restaurant in the city (although we still have many others to visit). We both went for the prime rib which was delicious and unbelievably massive (and yes, of course I finished mine!).
On Sunday morning we got up early and made our way to Vancouver airport on the Canada Line, it only took about 30 minutes and it's a very quick, easy and cheap way to get there. When we arrived we found Lou's flight number and went to check in. I'd started to feel a bit homesick and started to regret not booking a ticket for myself but then I noticed the huge lineup and heard many grumpy Brits complaining and that subsided my desire to go back a little bit! After checking in we had a quick bite to eat and then said our goodbyes and we managed to do it tear free (just!). It felt weird riding the SkyTrain home on my own knowing that I was facing two weeks of being the only person in the apartment. I didn't really relax for the remainder of the day until Lou phoned me at midnight to let me know she'd arrived and it was nice to hear that she wasn't feeling too bad after the gruelling 9.5 hour flight.
This week has not actually been that bad, it's been a bit quiet but I've managed to clear my head of all the work related stress and concentrate on what I'm going to do in the future. As you may have guessed I decided to leave my job as I'd originally intended. I gave the training role 9 days but I quickly realized it wasn't for me and that it contained many aspects (non-IT related) that I wasn't aware of before I decided to give it a go. Rather than jack it in 2 months down the line (when I predicted I'd have reached the limit of my patience) I thought it would be best to leave on good terms and before I became integral to any of their plans. So now I'm getting my head down and working on a few things and doing a lot of self studying. I am still applying for a few jobs too but I'm also working on my own stuff as well. I'm keeping things a little bit vague at the moment in case things don't pan out they way I hope. I've thought it all through though (and we have money the bank should it be needed).
My plans will hopefully work out better overall for me and Lou. At the moment we have only been spending one in seven weekends together and when Lou has been off work I haven't been and vice versa. Now we'll be able to better utilize the time off and make the most of living in a beautiful province. I noticed a worrying pattern occurring where at times I was starting to feel like I was back in the UK, ie going work and doing nothing in the free time I had because of conflicting schedules. Without having any family to visit and fall back on too I'm always aware that it's imperative we keep things fresh and exciting otherwise we might as well just be back in the UK. Some people have said life can't all be fun and whilst that may be true in my eyes if the balance starts to tip in the wrong direction it's time to switch things up a little bit!
During the week I've been in contact with Lou a fair bit via the phone so I've not had that lonely feeling. It has been the longest time we've been apart in seven years though so it does seem a bit strange and certainly quiet! Lou, some friends and even myself had joked that I may not eat very well in her absence but (after an initial meal of instant noodles and toast) I've been making sure to reasonably healthy and have had plenty of fruit and veg. I have impressed myself with my cooking skills which I'm now eager to show Lou when she comes home. I have to admit though it doesn't come with ease and it seems to take me 2 hours to make something! I've been making sure to get out of the apartment during the daytime and have been making trips to the shops and going for plenty of fresh air. On Thursday I went for a walk around the city and then across the sea wall which is one my favourite places. I took some photo's which are below, Lou has the 'posh' camera so I had to use my phone but they actually turned out quite good. Yesterday I headed over to Commercial Drive and met one of my friends Sam for a few Friday beers. It was the first time in a while we'd met up and it was good to have a catch up and laugh about about life. I love talking to people who have always lived in BC. This afternoon I'm heading over to my friends apartment to have some ribs, beer and watch the hockey. The Canucks are still doing well in the play-offs and are in Round 2, it's early days still but I'm really hoping they go all the way.
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Vancouver, Canada
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